Eight Ways to Make Sex Fun & Spice up Your Sex Life

Every act in our life can become monotonous with time and quite often we do not find it interesting anymore. But we can add value to the same scenario by playing around with the environment. Sex is no different. Most people who do not find it interesting at some point in life are often focused on orgasm without enjoying the process.

In this article, we are going to explore some of the most exciting ways suggested by therapists to make the process spicy and interesting for you and your partner. Sex is beautiful in many ways. We just need to explore each of them and come out of the unrealistic fancy goals and rather enjoy the process of romance by sprinkling glamour all around us.

Here are eight proven ways suggested by professionals to improve the quality of sex life that makes sex fun and exciting;

1. Talk about your fantasies

Everybody Fantasize! Yes, we all do fantasize at different points in time about sex. This is what makes sex pretty fascinating and interesting. But we are afraid to discuss them with our partners because of the factor of embarrassment. But it’s not embarrassing at all. Trust me, when you discuss your fantasies with your partner, it gives them the confidence and comfort to disclose what they are finding hard to tell you.

You can try it in different ways such as;

Play a Card Game: Design a card game with multiple cards written your fantasies on the back of it. Each time, your partner picks a random card, he/she has to fulfill that fantasy with you.  

Play a Lucky Draw: Write all the fantasies on paper and randomly start playing a lucky draw game for 5 of them. You and your partner have to choose 5 tickets and open them to see who has got more fantasies to be fulfilled for today. This will surely make you guys interested and let you have better couple goals every time you decide to have sex.

• Porn and Hormones

We all know porn is the cinematography and goes beyond the normal limits of human capacity. But after all, it beautifies the acts of intimacy and sex. Sex sounds beautiful after watching porn because it releases our hormones and this influx arouses all of us. This boost is enough for us to start moving towards our partner and start making love.

A good display of porn in your room puts both of you on fire and you can enjoy every moment with intense expectations. Your partner and you will now enjoy the process of sex rather than focusing on orgasms. This changes everything in a relationship by glamourizing sex. It gives more peace of mind and satisfaction by enabling you to enjoy sex every time.

• Dress Up

We all love certain characters in our lives. This is because we want to come out of the onerous routine. Some of us are fascinated by the sexiest dress code of fashion models while others might have a keen interest in nurses. Create a scenario and wear that dress for your partner to impress and let him/her indulge in that dramatic scene. It will surely change the environment and heat the surroundings for you.

Ask your partner about his/her favorite costume and then arrange that immediately for the next evening. This dressing up will have an impact on your experience with your partner because this turns him/her on and gives you guys a reason to experience the intense desires you have ever had.  

• Sex Doll & You Two

If you guys are missing some adventure in your sex lives, I recommend you to buy a sex doll and introduce it to your family as a family member. This is going to change everything forever. This sex doll now changes how you two behave and this changes the whole story.

Now you have more options to explore rather than just sticking to the idea of sex between the two of you. Suppose you are fond of BDSM Sex but your partner is not comfortable with it. A sex doll is there to help. You can discuss it with your partner and opt to practice BDSM sex with your doll and let your partner accompany you. This can go beyond your imagination and let you explore far more options than just random sex. Now you have a choice to enjoy better and experience better moves with your partner and doll.

• Eye Contact and Whispering

Eye contact plays a crucial role in strengthening the bonds between two people. It gives you a sense of love and boosts your confidence in that person. Healthy eye contact during sex intensifies the process with positive energy as both partners feel committed. It also increases the vigor for more heated sex by increasing the aggressiveness of both partners.

By looking into the eyes of your partner while having sex gives you the necessary confidence to proceed with higher energy and satisfy your partner. It also affects the response in several ways and allows you to believe that your partner is in full swing.

Whispering into the ears of your partner during sex is far more effective than any other way because it connects both of you in very intimate ways. A simple whisper of “I love you” during sex can have very pleasing and release hormones of pleasure that ultimately make both of you feel wonderful.

• Try Positions? Yes, Positions!

Each Sex Position is beautiful in its way and you can easily practice them by living the moments in the right way. There are several sex positions for which you can find a full catalog online.

Your favorite position gives you a boost because you find it interesting, arousing and that’s why you get intense pleasure. Try one after another and you will realize why they are so fascinating. This adds the necessary variety to our sex drive because we find new positions and ways of intimacy more interesting than the conventional ones.

• Changes Matter

Human by nature is fond of change and want variety in everything over time. There has been a growing and ever-popular trend of trying Taboo methods of sex. But that is because of the constant quest of human beings to bring something new to the table. We want new practices that that’s why you need to change the way you behave during sex. Changes not only in your behavior but your surroundings as well.

For example, if you are used to having sex in bed every night, you might likely be having sex in the same conventional ways or the positions you have always tried.

Try something new this time. Yes, hug your partner and take him/her to the nearest couch this time. You can even try the floor or the wall of your room. This way, your mind opens up to new ideas and engages you to enjoy the process rather than just focusing on the orgasm.

You can also make changes to your room set up or bringing in lights that turn the evening into a more romantic one. Try new ways that can satisfy your inner sense in one way or the other.

• Please Your Partner

Focus on your partner more than your pleasure and you will ultimately have higher satisfaction and pleasure. Try to arouse and satisfy your partner by fulfilling his/her fantasies and this paves the way for a more robust response which ultimately satisfies your desires.

You should have an informed picture of the fantasies of your partner in your mind. Start fulfilling those fantasies and you will notice an energizing response. This is called the art of seduction and satisfaction because you are taking over the nerves of your partner and making him/her respond in a very positive way. Your partner does not have any other option but to engage in this healthy and fascinating sex now.

Conclusion

This does not end up here as there are hundreds of other possibilities but we are making sure you are aware of the most common ways that can make your sex life easier than ever.

We are putting ideas together with our content for lovely audiences like you and we expect these ways will help you out in many ways. That’s because sex is a wonderful adventure and an important part of our lives. It can turn your life into a healthy and lovely phenomenon but it can also affect your daily life in multiple ways if proper ways of satisfaction are not tried.

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